Please consider the following # descriptions and choose the one that you feel best describes you.
Description #5
Do you feel a strong drive to “be true to yourself?” Do you often find yourself “so busy” that one day you pause and go “this isn’t who I am?” Do you find yourself drawn to “sets of values” (like religion) as a way of ensuring that you are “moral?”
Do you feel an intense desire to go out and experience “everything?” Do you struggle with routines, schedules, and traditions? Do you long to have “a place/space that is yours” but struggle to do what is necessary to achieve/maintain such a space?
“You value what is new and often look to the future. You warn others of possible dangers, and secretly expect some form of gratitude or reciprocity in return. You long to be admired and often seek out the company of people who are skilled, powerful, and/or attractive. You are very good at ‘making a case’ and convincing others to agree with you. You feel that rules are ‘open to interpretation’ and find a ‘lack of flexibility’ challenging. You do not like feeling ‘obligated’ to others. When stressed, you often seek out ‘distractions’ as a coping mechanism.”
Do you feel this is accurate for you?
Description #15
Do you feel it is your responsibility to “guide” and “correct others” when they say or do something “incorrect?” Do you support others by “helping them to be more organized/efficient?”
Do you secretly wish to be creative but struggle with “too many different ideas?” Do you find “new things” stressful and “cling to the familiar?”
“You have a strong memory. You value knowledge, tradition, duty, and safety. You rely on experts to guide you, but are very careful about who you consider to be an expert. You sometimes struggle with social conventions, but believe it is your duty to conform to them. You find change stressful, and have a tendency to cling to the familiar. In the face of too much emotion or social interaction, you focus on logical details, often seeking solitude to think.”
Do you feel this is accurate for you?